Cue Card

Describe something you had to share with someone else

You should say:

• what it was
• who you shared it with
• why you had to share it; and
• explain how you felt about it.

Sample Part 3 Questions

1. Do you think children like to share?
2. How can parents teach their children to share?
3. How do you think children benefit from sharing?
4. Is there anything that children have to be persuaded to share by their parents?

Sample Cue Card Answer

So, I want to share with you a story about something I had to share with my sister. Growing up, my sister and I shared a room, and let me tell you, it was a real challenge. We had to share everything - clothes, toys, and even our deepest secrets. But there was one thing that I had to share with her that I'll never forget.

It was my favorite childhood blanket, the one my grandmother had made for me when I was a baby. I had taken it with me everywhere, and it was my security blanket, literally. But when my sister and I went off to college, we had to share a small apartment, and I had to share my blanket with her. At first, I was hesitant, but she promised to take good care of it, and I knew I had to trust her.

As it turned out, sharing my blanket with my sister brought us closer together. We would have late-night conversations, and I would confide in her about my deepest fears and desires. The blanket became a symbol of our sisterly bond, and I realized that sharing something so personal with her had actually brought us closer together.

Looking back, I realize that sharing my blanket with my sister taught me the value of vulnerability and trust. It showed me that sometimes, sharing something that's precious to us can actually bring us closer to others and create a deeper connection. And even though I still miss my blanket, I know that it's in good hands with my sister, and that's all that matters.

Cue Card Answer Key Phrases and Idioms

share and share alike

to share something equally with someone else

My sister and I had to share our toys, share and share alike.

We decided to share the cost of the rent, share and share alike.

Sample Part 3 Answers

Do you think children like to share? Honestly, I don't think children naturally like to share, at least not at first. When kids are young, they're still learning about ownership and possession, and it can be hard for them to understand why they have to give up something that's 'theirs'. I mean, think about it - when you're a kid, your toys and belongings are a big part of your identity, and sharing them can feel like you're giving up a part of yourself. Plus, kids are still developing their sense of empathy and understanding of other people's feelings, so they might not always be able to put themselves in someone else's shoes and see why sharing is important.

How can parents teach their children to share? I think one of the best ways parents can teach their kids to share is by leading by example. If kids see their parents sharing with others, whether it's sharing food, toys, or time, they're more likely to follow suit. For example, if a parent is cooking dinner and decides to share some with a neighbor who's going through a tough time, the kid will see that sharing is a kind and generous thing to do. Additionally, parents can encourage sharing by setting clear expectations and making it a part of daily life, like having a'sharing time' during playdates or at family gatherings. It's also important to praise and reward sharing behavior, not just with tangible rewards, but with positive reinforcement and affection.

How do you think children benefit from sharing? I think sharing is a huge part of social development for kids. When kids share, they're learning important skills like cooperation, empathy, and communication. They're also developing their problem-solving skills, because sharing often requires compromise and finding a solution that works for everyone. Plus, sharing helps kids build stronger relationships with their peers and family members, which is essential for their emotional and social well-being. And let's not forget about the sense of pride and self-worth that comes from sharing - when kids share, they feel good about themselves and their ability to make a positive impact on others.

Is there anything that children have to be persuaded to share by their parents? Definitely! I think one thing that kids often have to be persuaded to share is their favorite toy or possession. You know, that one special thing that they just can't imagine living without. Parents often have to have conversations with their kids about why sharing that one special thing is important, and how it can bring joy to someone else. It's not always easy, but it's a great opportunity for parents to teach their kids about the value of generosity and kindness. Sometimes, it's also necessary to set boundaries and explain that sharing doesn't mean giving something up forever, but rather taking turns and being willing to let someone else enjoy it for a little while.

Part 3 Key Phrases and Idioms

lead by example

to show others how to behave by behaving in that way yourself

If kids see their parents sharing with others, whether it's sharing food, toys, or time, they're more likely to follow suit.

follow suit

to do the same thing as someone else because they have done it

If kids see their parents sharing with others, whether it's sharing food, toys, or time, they're more likely to follow suit.

set clear expectations

to clearly tell someone what you expect them to do or how you expect them to behave

Parents can encourage sharing by setting clear expectations and making it a part of daily life.

tangible rewards

something that you can touch or hold, such as money or a prize

Parents can encourage sharing by praising and rewarding sharing behavior, not just with tangible rewards, but with positive reinforcement and affection.

positive reinforcement

the act of encouraging good behavior by praising or rewarding it

Parents can encourage sharing by praising and rewarding sharing behavior, not just with tangible rewards, but with positive reinforcement and affection.

compromise

an agreement in which both sides give up something in order to reach a decision

Sharing often requires compromise and finding a solution that works for everyone.

sense of pride

a feeling of happiness and satisfaction with oneself or one's achievements

When kids share, they feel good about themselves and their ability to make a positive impact on others.

procrastination

the act of delaying or putting off a task or decision

Parents often have to have conversations with their kids about why sharing that one special thing is important, and how it can bring joy to someone else.